10 TED Talks to inspire teachers

10 TED Talks to inspire teachersSummer is on the way out, and the school year is underway. Everything is shiny and new. But if youve taught before, you know its notlage long until the gleam wears off and the grind of the school year sets in. googletag.cmd.push(function() googletag.display(div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0) ) These 10 Ted Talks from teachers who are changing the world around them will inspire you long after September has passed. Watch when youre feeling burned out, and know that you, too, have a personal hand in molding the lives of the kids you see every day.1. Rita F. Pierson Every Kid Needs a ChampionPierson has been a teacher for the past 40 years. zu sich bottom line you have to connect with your students on a human, personal level. Her response to a colleague who said he wasnt paid to like the kids? The kids can tell.2. Linda Cliatt-Wayman How to Fix a Broken SchoolHer answer to this question? Lead fearlessly, love hard. This principal of a once-failing North Philadel phia school has a lot to say about the complexities of running low performing and persistently dangerous schools and how a true love of the students is the only foundation for any change.3. Sakena Yacoobi How I stopped the Taliban from shutting down my schoolThe Taliban shut down every girls school in Afghanistan. Yacoobi set up new onessecret schools to educate thousands of girls and boys. This inspirational talk shows just what a teacher is capable of in the face of terrifying obstacles.4. Nadia Lopez Why open a school? To close a prison.Lopez is the founder of Mott Hall Bridges Academy in Brownsville, Brooklynone of the most violent and underserved neighborhoods of New York City. Here, she talks about finding out what each child is capable of and how they can plan for a bright future.5. Christopher Emdin Teach teachers how to create magicEmdins focus is making learning come alive. Whatever gets a kid interested and engaged allows you to teachanything from rap songs to barbershop banter to church sermons. Hes also the founder of Science Genius B.A.T.T.L.E.S. with GZA of the Wu-Tang Clan.6. Ramsey Musallam 3 rules to spark learningMusallam was jarred awake after 10 years of what he calls pseudo teaching by surgery and the surgeon who saved his life. Here, he talks about the three principles he used to turn his classroom around.7. Fawn Qiu Easy DIY projects for kid engineersTrying to figure out how to get kids into STEM? Qius practical advice gives great ideas to teachers hoping to find low-cost, innovative ideas for projects for students of all levels to get them excited by STEM fields.8. Reshma Saujani Teach girls bravery, not perfectionGirls are often socialized to be perfectand not just that, but to meet impossible standards of perfection. If they feel they cant live up to these impossible ideals, theyll often give up. Saujani wants to teach girls to respond to challenges with bravery and confidence.9. Eduardo Briceo How to get better at the things you car e aboutNo matter how much you want to be good at something, there will always come a time when your work will stagnate, no matter how persistently youre working. These times require a bit of extra determination. Briceo also offers up a strategyalternating between learning and performance modesto keep things fresh and forward moving.10. Stephen Ritz A teacher growing green in the South BronxA tree grows in the Bronx? Ritz focuses on urban landscaping and agricultural projects that help his students learn new skills effortlessly while improving an underserved communitys access to nutritious food. Hell help you learn how to think outside the box. Prepare to be inspired.

Passive Behavior 6 Pain-Free Ways to Deal with Problematic Colleagues

Passive Behavior 6 Pain-Free Ways to Deal with Problematic Colleagues Were all guilty of occasionally acting in passive-aggressive ways at work. We may use humor to deflect criticism, half-heartedly say yes when we mean no, or signal disinterest by waiting days before replying to an emailone form of the silent treatment.Identifying passive-aggressive people usually isnt difficult. Theyre the colleagues whose snide comments make your blood boil. Their penchant to shift blame or avoid picking up their share of the workload is crazy-making and can ignite feelings of resentment and even anger. Sarcasm, the silent treatment, and procrastination are a few of the many classic signs of passive-aggressive behavior.This type of conflict-avoidance can become an issue, however, when it becomes chronic and pervasive. Passive-aggressive behaviorwhether malicious or unintentionalcontributes to a toxic environment.No one is immune to the effects of sugar-coated hostility at the office. Left unchecke d, it can erode employee morale and contribute to burn outeven if you otherwise enjoy the work you do.Shutting down passive-aggressive patterns in the workplace can be tricky. It takes time and patience. But learning to short circuit this unproductive cycle can save you from unending power struggles in work relationships that leave you feeling miserable.More importantly, you can do your part to stop the spread of negative feelings and resentment throughout the office. Because the only thing worse than dealing with a passive-aggressive person is becoming one yourself.See Beyond The SurfaceWhen a colleague cops a passive-aggressive attitude, determine how this behavior has benefited them in the past.Look for the hidden positive outcome motivating the person to act passive-aggressively. What do they achieve by not expressing themselves directly? They may get to feel oben liegend by putting others down. Or perhaps they gossip to be part of the in crowd at the office.Consider ways you m ay be enabling the passive-aggressive dynamic to stay in place as well backhanded compliments, procrastinating on deliverables, saying its fine when its not.Remove the RewardWhile you may be irked by your colleagues criticisms or lack of follow-through, refuse to mirror their personality and emotional tone. Dont nag or rescue them. Avoid firing back with comments like Why would you do that? or What do you really mean? Tit for tat will not improve the situation.Reacting to passive aggression only escalates conflict and gives the instigator the reward they want, keeping the bad behavior in place.Feel it AllAnd Rise AboveYou have the right to be treated with respect in the workplace (which is an expectation to never compromise on). You also have a responsibility to protect your mental and emotional well-being from passive-aggressive energy vampires. That might mean working from home to limit contact, popping on headphones while you work, or taking a brisk walk around the gruppe to clea r your mind.Trying to quell your emotions doesnt make the problem go away. If anything, it often makes it worse. Its perfectly reasonably to be frustrated by passive-aggressive behavior, but process your emotions outside of your interaction with the person.Take Ego Out of CommunicationIf your job requires collaboration with passive-aggressive colleagues, you may need to modify your communication ever so slightly in order to make your working relationship function.When in direct conversation, avoid using words like you or your when directed at someone with a passive-aggressive personality. Replace it with statements that begin with we to depersonalize issues (We have some challenges...) or when (When theres miscommunication on the team).Mastering a few simple principles of assertiveness can help defuse resistance and bolster cooperation in the situation.Set Limits and Follow ThroughWhen you start changing the way you communicate, there may be backlash from colleagues. Micro-aggressio ns may intensify when you disrupt the normal, elusive way of doing things.Stay consistent in your assertive communication and work to establish clear standards and expectations that hold people accountable. When designed effectively, consequences are the most powerful way to snub out passive aggression.For example, if you want to curb tardiness, begin meetings on time regardless of who runs late. If you say youll start without them, enforce it.Adopt an Open-Door PolicyPassive-aggressive people struggle to express themselves openly at work, but you can influence positive change welcoming feedback and dialogue.Start by offering different ways colleagues can get in touch beyond face-to-face communication. Mention that your inbox is always open to them or that youre available of Slack or Skype throughout the day if something comes up.Encouraging two-way communication helps head off passive-aggressive behavior and and hostility before it starts. By doing so, you help create a psychologic ally safe workplace where healthy, constructive problem-solving can thrive.A version of this article originally appeared on Forbes.Melody Wilding is a coach and licensed social worker who helps ambitious high-achievers manage the emotional aspects of having a successful career. Her clients include CEOs and C-level executives at top Fortune 500 companies such as Google and HP, as well as media personalities, startup founders, and entrepreneurs across industries. She also teaches Human Behavior at Hunter College in NYC. Get free tools to grow your career confidence atmelodywilding.com.